Octopus

There is not much I love more then cutting a rug wherever it is, in my room or on the dance floor. The only problem with a dance floor is most times they come with the club scene, and where there is a club scene there are men who want to hump, grab and wrap there tentacles on whatever they can. Being somewhat of an attractive fun girl I get the tentacles trying to wrap around me. Given some girls like it, but I'm an old fashioned kind of girl who doesn't want a stranger grabbing at me or my bits. I want someone who at least can carry a entertaining conversation, and knows my name before try to jam thier tongue down my throat.

I went to this bar called Circa in Toronto not too long ago, throughout the night me and my gf's had continuously been molested on the dance floor. At the end of the night me and my other gf were sharing stories of the creepers we had encountered, my gf had a guy try to stick a finger in her ass. When she turned around to see the culpret he was smiling and said " c'mere baby" and tried to grab her again, my gf (who doesn't take shit) pushed him off and the bouncer kicked him out. I had my ass grabbed under my dress(couldn't find the sneaky bastard), I got so annoyed by the end of the night I went and sat in a corner all pissy. So i'm gonna ask all men octopus' or not, what makes men think they have the right to grab at women like this, violating them and ruin thier night?.......And if you are an octopus make sure you're grabbing the right lady cuz I ain't afraid to kick your ass!

Loverboy

I meet alot of people because I have a very social career, and my favorite part of my job is hearing peoples stories. I met an older gentleman not too long ago who used to belong to a group called Loverboy (old group), he told me a story about his life that gave me chicken skin.

He was married to his beloved past wife for 30 plus years before she passed with breast cancer, he was heart broken for a few years and then started wondering about his high school sweetheart. One day he happened to run into an old friend who still had contact with her, long story short they ended up making contact with eachother. After many conversations over the phone, they decided to meet. The day that he went to meet her, he was so nervous he threw up on his way. Needless to say he had to stop to clean up and buy some toiletries and was late for the date. As he was approaching his date was leaving he caught her before his chance of re-kindling a long lost love walked away.........They are now happily married to eachother, I hope this warms your heart like it does mine.

'Tis the season to feel lonely.

I know that winter time is baby making time for most unless you are a winter person. I am not and at this time of year at times singledom can make me feel lonely, like most. I don't feel lonely just cuz of no cuddles and baby making, but I feel it because for me Christmas is about love and giving. I know that you do that with others, but it's not the same kind of love and it feels like the missing piece of the holidays for me. I mean it would be great to have a love of my life to share all the events and put a slutty Santa outfit on for, I want to have Christmas sex damn it! LOL

It's not just Christmas either I mean I could always make-out with a random guy when the clock stirkes twelve, but that's not my style and I rather have a meaningful kiss and get it on after! LOL........I don't know about anyone else out there but at 28yrs old I am noticing that I don't have very many single friends and when I ask what thier plans are for New Year's it's all couple shit and when you're not a couple you can't do couple shit. I did have some of my coupled friends invite me to a cottage, but again with all couples and what am I gonna do while everyone is kissing thier loved ones or go to make love? I might as well stab myself in the heart cuz I don't got anyone else to do it,I swear being single is like a disease sometimes. Now don't get me wrong there are perks to being single, there is alot of tasty men to have fun with, no obligation of giving up some of your time, no stress about occasions etc............I still can't help but wonder if there is someone out there for me that would make it seem like I wasn't giving anything up and gaining so much. Merry Christmas everyone, much love and peace!

How and Why am I here?

First of all let me introduce myself incase ya'll didn't clue in from the title of my page, Shormita is my name and I am sooooo very excited to be here! I've got that butterfly, first date or really liking a guy kind of feeling. I'm scared yet filled with anticipation to begin a new journey here and open my heart and head(well not completely, some stuff is top secret). I am here because I love to write and think, like most of you I am sure. We each bring something new to the table, whether we have a laugh, make eachother go hmmmmm, touch eachother etc. I am here for the same reason with a different view or maybe similar view to yours, basically to share my soul, thoughts, and shtuff. How I ended up here however is beacuse of a Morbid Angel who is a fellow blogger and if I had never talked to him I would not have known about this place or been inspired to share, so if you ever read this Morbid Angel..........Thanks